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Hello, thanks for visiting ‘just glitter”. I’m Glitter , and I live in the city of gold Johannesburg.I am current running my business Deeboiz Pty Ltd (www.deeboizjumpingcastles.blogspot.com).Author of Life is an emotional rollercoaster. I started ‘Just Glitter’ because I felt I needed a platform on which to share my opinions, experiences and the knowledge I’ve gained over the years, and to showcase all the things that excite and inspire me.

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Wednesday, September 3, 2014

How to forgive....

Forgiving someone can be very hard. You tell a person you forgave them but find it hard to let go. Sometimes you find yourself visualising over and over about the deeds that happened and how you were offended. You imagine what wrong you did to them to hurt you, lie to you or steal from you. You find yourself making excuses not to see or meet the people that wronged you yet you say you have forgiven them. Why is hard to face them if you have forgiven them is it the fact that the pain of what they did is not forgetten? It’s very hard when it’s those close to our hearts, friends or families. It’s hard when all you’re doing is trying to heal and everyone thinks you have changed. If you don’t forgive you always resent those who wronged you. To some people it takes time to heal and some heal fast and others choose not to forgive and go on carrying the hurt and pain.

 How do you forgive when all you want to do is to revenge .Is it worth it not to forgive and carry the burden of always thinking about revenge and plotting which also makes you miserable. Rather choose to forgive as you would like to be forgiven too. With time wounds heal and it doesn’t hurt to laugh and smile. If you have wronged or hurt someone ask for forgiveness but most important you need to forgive yourself so that you can accept when you are forgiven or not forgiven. To those who can’t forgive you don’t worry about them as long as you were genuine in your being sorry. How many times does God forgive us, who are we not to forgive? Forgiving doesn’t mean you forget you just let go of anger. We should learn to forgive for our spiritual, emotional and physical well being.

Holding a grudge or constantly replaying what people said to you in your mind is exhausting and not good for your mental and physical well being. If you’re waiting for people to apologize, you could be waiting a long time. Most people are unaware they’ve hurt you or believe they did anything wrong. Forgive them and move forward with your life. Constantly replaying hurtful conversations and memories in your mind will eventually consume and eat at you. Before you know it, bitterness and resentment will have settled into your body, mind, and soul. You could possibly create diseases within your body and mind which could have dire consequences. Learn to process your feelings and let go of whatever others have done to you. Be slow on anger. It may not be easy, but it helps a lot .Many diseases are caused by anger, resentment and negativities. We should learn to forgive as we also hurt others unknowingly.
                       Word from the bible

For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. (Matthew 6:14, 15)
The shortest distance between a problem and a solution is the distance between your knees and the floor.the one who  kneels to GOD can stand up to anything.Winners make things happen and losers let things happen